Chapter 1: About You (The Speaker Habit)

Introduction

This book is for English learners who want to reach native-level fluency. You are not a beginner. And you are not looking to pick up a few phrases for travel. That is not good enough for you, Dear Speaker. 

Your life depends on mastering the English language. You need English to gain admission to Harvard Business School. If not, your dream of entrepreneurship in America dies. You need English to become a registered nurse in the state of Texas. If not, you can’t pay rent. You need English to flee your war-torn country. If not, your children’s future blackens. 

This is serious business. And there is no magical AI tool coming to save you, only you can save you. Your future and your family’s future depend on whether or not you speak native-level English. 

It is not fair, I know. You have been taking English classes for years and years and years. You have bought books, downloaded apps, paid private teachers and still you hear the same song – not good enough

This book is for you. Even if you have read all the books and downloaded all the apps. Reaching native-level fluency is still within reach. All is not lost. I promise you that.

Your Present and Future 

Your goal is native-level fluency. To reach it, avoid nebulous terms and strive for concrete figures. Do you remember in school when you were lumped into classes like Beginner English or Advanced English? I don’t know what Advanced English is, do you? Vague language chokes progress, so avoid it. Think like a CEO. Business leaders rely on data to measure success. Tracking cash, expenses, and customers is essential for growth. Exclaiming I want to be fluent in English is not good enough. Start by quantifying what your current level of English is and where you want to go. 

Test scores are imperfect measuring devices. I doubt my best friend – born and raised in the USA –  would crack a 100 on the TOEFL. Still, tests matter to schools, to institutions, to companies, and to immigration offices, so they matter to you. Use one of the following exams to measure your current level: 

  • Duolingo English Test (DET)

  • Common European Framework of Reference for Languages (CEFR)

  • International English Language Testing System (IELTS) 

  • Test of English as a Foreign Language (TOEFL) 

Choose one test. I recommend the Duolingo English Test (DET). It’s affordable, easy to take from home, and accepted by over 4000 U.S. universities1. Reaching native-level fluency will be very, very hard. You will want to quit. Make your life easy when you have the chance. Take the DET and make it your measuring device. 

You may have noticed that I have already fallen into the trap of foggy terminology. In the opening lines, I mentioned that this book is not for beginners. Let’s quantify what that means. Here are the recommended minimum score requirements for the Speaker Habit:  

  • Duolingo English Test - 100

  • CEFR - B2 

  • IELTS - 6.0

  • TOEFL iBT - 70 

If you are at a CEFR B1 level or lower, this book isn’t for you – yet.  And that’s nothing to be ashamed of. In fact, the beginning stages of language learning are exciting. Watch, read, and listen to what you love. Increase your exposure. Expand your vocabulary. Take your time and enjoy the process. The Speaker Habit will still be here when you’re ready. 

Another nebulous term to quantify is native-level fluency. Notice I did not use the more common goal of I want to speak like a native speaker. Why? Because some native speakers sound like idiots. There are plenty of non-native speakers who are more eloquent, such as French President Emmanuel Macron. While native-level fluency is a more appropriate term, it lacks an explicit destination. Your goals should be as clear as an address on a map. For our purposes, native-level fluency means, at a minimum, reaching one of these test scores: 

  • Duolingo English Test - 130

  • CEFR - C1

  • IELTS - 7.0

  • TOEFL iBT - 98 

Choose one as your goal. The rest of the book will show you how to get there, step by step.

Chapter 2: About Your Doubts (The Speaker Habit)

For the lucky ones, learning English feels like a steady climb – their English gradually improves in step with the hours they put in. For others, there comes a time when no matter what you try, improvement fails to follow. It feels like you are just slamming your skull against a stone wall. That’s exactly how Mariam felt before surrendering $50 and booking a private lesson with me. 

Mariam’s story mirrors many of the students I mentor. She had lived and worked in the States since 2015, settling in a suburb of Orlando and working at a local pharmacy. Three kids and a mortgage later, she sought to become a licensed pharmacist and earn the pay bump that came with it. Everything was in order. She filled out the paperwork and passed all the tests except one, the TOEFL. All she needed was a 26 on the TOEFL Speaking to become a licensed pharmacist. She assumed it would be easy. Why not? She had been speaking English every day for a decade, living and working with no trouble at work or at home. But when the results came back, her confidence collapsed: 21.

After shaking off the shock, Mariam rekindled her motivation. All her life, nothing had come easy. She had already fought through doubters at school, bullies at home, criminals on the streets, pushing forward, clawing her way to America, where she earned a Master's Degree from the University of Florida. She thought her student days were over until she saw her TOEFL score. No stranger to adversity, she rolled up her sleeves, set up her schedule, and started to seriously study. 

Two months later, she earned a 23. All the other sections were fine, she just needed three more measly points in the Speaking. 

She shifted tactics and consulted with a few of her co-workers at the pharmacy. They were all from Egypt, like her, and had already passed the TOEFL, so she trusted their advice. 

“Just keep taking it. Eventually, you will get 26. It took me a few tries, too.” 

Money was tight. The test cost $300 a pop, but the pay raise made it worth the risk. She planned to take the test once a month until she got her score.  23. 20. 24. 22. 22. 21. 23. It is only after nine failed attempts and nearly a year of self-studying that Mariam broke down and booked a session with me. 

Failing a test hurts. Repeatedly failing a test infects the mind. You question your confidence, even your intelligence. Worst of all, it strains relationships. People count on you. You would rather take a knife to the heart than let a loved one down. So you carry on, failure turning into a parasite, eating away at your insides, polluting your thoughts, your actions, your attitude. Everyone wants to help, but no one knows how. The burden turns unbearable and, finally, you book an appointment with someone like me, a stranger on the Internet who claims to be a TOEFL expert. That’s how I met Mariam. 

“I feel like something’s wrong with me,” Mariam confessed. 

“There’s nothing wrong with you.” 

“I saw one of your YouTube videos. I read the comments. Everyone was thanking you for helping them get their score. It looks like the test is easy for everyone but me.” 

“Mariam, do you remember how many views that video had?” 

“I don’t remember. It was a lot.” 

“Most of the videos get around 20,000 views, some more, some less. But do you know how many comments there are?” 

“No.” 

“Fewer than 100. Out of 20,000 people, fewer than 100 leave a comment. Believe it or not, most test-takers are in the exact same position as you.” 

“Oh, I see.”

“Look, this test is hard, especially if you want a 26 on the TOEFL Speaking. I know you know that. I know you have worked hard. But it takes more than just effort. It requires smart, specific, purposeful practice. I can show you how, but you must be patient and willing to work.” 

“I’ll do whatever it takes,” Mariam said.  

We talked through a plan. I told her it would take time. We’d meet twice a week for at least two months, and every day she would commit to at least thirty minutes of uninterrupted, purposeful TOEFL Speaking practice. We agreed she’d practice in the morning, before her kids woke up, so she could study without distractions. She missed a few days at first, adjusting to the new habit, but she soon settled into the routine. Mariam had moments of deep doubt, but she decided to trust the process, the Speaker Habit. 

After two months, she took the TOEFL again and earned a 24, still two points short, but something had shifted. The test no longer felt like a mystery. She knew why she had failed to earn a 26. Her weaknesses were no longer dwelling in the dark because she had confronted them daily through the Speaker Habit. Her anxiety eased. She relied less on my words and more on her actions. In Mariam’s mind, the TOEFL test score she craved no longer felt like a possibility, but an inevitability. After four months of consistent, purposeful practice, she earned a 27, adding her own success story to the comments. 

Meeting me was not enough for Mariam, just like reading this book will not be enough for you. No one can give you better English. It requires intelligent effort. I have had many private students who fall into this trap. They pay for lessons, show up for classes, and expect their test score to improve. They treat the transaction as the solution, the same way booking a hotel room solves the problem of accommodation. But classes alone won’t solve this problem. I know you know it takes work, Dear Speaker, but it bears repeating. I can only show you the path to native-level English, you must walk it. 

It’s natural to doubt if English improvement is even possible since it has taken years to reach your current level. Some of you may have given up already, resigned to the idea that there is nothing left to do but accept your lack of progress as fate. No. No. No. This is a belief, not a fact. There is no limit to your potential to speak better English. You may find that hard to believe. You may carry self-fulfilling doubts that whisper you’ll be stuck forever. Let’s address a few of the most common objections I have heard from other frustrated language learners.

“It’s too late to change my accent.”

You don’t need to change your accent to reach native-level fluency. Again, you do not need to change your accent. If the way you speak is an issue, the problem is intelligibility, not accent. In other words, people should be able to understand you easily. Arnold Schwarzenegger doesn’t sound like a native speaker, but his English is intelligible. I’m not telling you to imitate Schwarzenegger – though that would be a hilarious goal – but that you aim to speak English clearly enough that it does not act as a barrier to being understood.

The Speaker Habit is not a routine to reduce your accent. We’re not going to overhaul your voice until you sound as if you were born and raised in Texas. That would be a painful waste of time. Accents are beautiful. They make language more interesting. More importantly, accent accounts for a small portion of your score on an English proficiency test like the TOEFL. Intelligibility matters much, much more than accent. 

So let’s adjust your objection to the more accurate, It is too late to sound intelligible.

No, it isn’t. It just requires purposeful practice with patient attention. 

Have you ever heard the expression The squeaky wheel gets the grease? It means you notice what makes the most noise. The loudest kid in class gets attention. The customer who keeps complaining gets a refund. This unfortunate truth applies not just to annoying people, but to language learning. We notice unknown vocabulary, proper grammar, and correct answers. And overlook details in our spoken English because the message matters most. As long as the listener understands us, we can skip over little mistakes. Who cares if when I asked the waiter for ice it sounded like eyes? The message was understood. I didn’t end up with a glass of water full of floating eyeballs, so my brain just filtered out that information. Our clever mind has limited space, so it ignores these speech hiccups. They seem unimportant. 

That ends with the Speaker Habit. You’ll bring your spoken English into the light. You’ll record your voice, listen to it, analyze it, identify weaknesses, and construct strategies for improvement. It’s not too late to speak native-level English. It just requires a shift in attention, turning mistakes into a squeaky wheel for your mind to prioritize.

“I’ll never speak as well as a native speaker.”

Comparing yourself to a native speaker is problematic on multiple levels. First, most English language users are non-native speakers. It’s estimated that non-native speakers outnumber native speakers three to one. That’s over 1.5 billion non-native speakers2  – that’s billion with a b. When you communicate in English, it will most likely be with non-native speakers, just like you.  

I’ll let you in on another secret: the phrase native speaker is kind of a dirty word among English teachers. For years, many schools required teachers to be from the U.S., Canada, Australia, New Zealand, South Africa, or the U.K. That meant millions of qualified English teachers from other countries were shut out—it was blatantly discriminatory. Just because you are American, for example, does not mean you are qualified to teach English. Teaching credentials should hold the same weight, regardless of whether the teacher is from Australia or Ghana.* Most in the English Language Teaching community (ELT) agree that native speakerism is both discriminatory and pedagogically unsound. Being a native speaker says nothing about your ability to teach. 

Even the term native speaker is relative. Most Singaporeans speak English as their first language, but that is probably not the first population you think of when you hear native speaker. Instead of worrying whether you’ll ever sound like James Bond, worry whether you’ll ever reach native-level fluency. That’s a realistic goal we can actually measure:

  • Duolingo English Test - 130

  • CEFR - C1

  • IELTS - 7.0

  • TOEFL iBT - 98 

Sure, a test score does not sound as sexy as I speak English like a native, but it can get you a job, an education, and even a pay raise. Saying I speak English like a native gets you a part-time job serving fries to tourists at the local McDonald's. 

“Some people are naturally talented at learning and speaking English. I’m not one of them.”

It can certainly feel like some people are naturally gifted language learners. Scroll through any social media feed and you’ll find an army of language wizards who can teach you to speak Elvish in 17 hours, which is just one of the 679 other languages they supposedly speak fluently. Even though our language learning skills feel meager when compared to the awesome power of the influencer, research in the field of Second Language Acquisition (SLA) largely fails to support the idea that learning a foreign language is a genetic gift.

In researching the field, I found one study suggesting that the amount of white matter in the brain correlates to language learning aptitude, and another hinting that genetic factors play some role4, but the evidence was sparse and unconvincing. There are indeed factors that contribute to how well and how fast one can learn a foreign language, but they aren’t genetic. Much stronger evidence points to motivation, environment, and practice, with decades of research backing them up. The SLA field is dense with literature on the power of motivation (championed by Dörnyei), the need for environmental input (made famous by Stephen Krashen), and the importance of proper practice (with Paul Nation being the most well-known researcher in this domain). 

Motivation. Input. Practice. If someone appears to be an apt language learner, it is most likely due to these three factors. And the good news is that you have at least two already. 

If you’re reading these words, you’re motivated. You wouldn’t be reading a book like this if you weren’t.

The Speaker Habit is recommended for English Language Learners at a CEFR B2 level, so you have already been exposed to thousands of English words and phrases, acquiring the input needed to use English at a high level. 

The missing piece is practice. That’s where the Speaker Habit comes in.

“I’m shy. I don’t like to speak.”

Being shy is not a fluency death sentence. Do you believe every bilingual person is outgoing? Plenty of shy people before you have learned to speak fluent English. That said, personality does play a part in your progress. Shy students speak less. Fewer chances mean fewer learning opportunities. The opposite holds true for talkative folk. If you are confident and enjoy small talk, you will expand your vocabulary and improve your fluency at a faster rate. But don’t let personality serve as an excuse for your spoken English. Speaking softly or disdaining group discussions doesn’t doom you to the basement of English aptitude. Even stars like Emma Watson or public figures like Bill Gates – both self-proclaimed introverts – have thrived. You don’t have to love to speak to be good at it. You just need to adjust the way you practice, which makes the Speaker Habit a perfect pick for the shy.

“I’ve tried everything. Nothing is going to work.”

Doubts are natural. Your journey to these words has already been long, much longer than you expected. You did what you were told. You went to class, got good grades, hired tutors, bought books, sacrificed free time to improve your English, and it still isn’t enough. I can only imagine how infuriating it feels for you.

Know that you are not alone. Tens of millions of other English language learners are just like you: unsatisfied with their current level. This is why there are thousands of schools, apps, and sites promising to deliver English fluency. It’s easy to forget because we are bombarded by success stories. Just open your preferred social media you’ll see a sea of smiling young faces, untouched by time or stress, claiming to have learned to speak perfect English in six days. Bookstores brim with books by hyperpolyglots who learned to speak 287 languages in 21 days.* Society sells fast and easy, but reality comes slow and steady.

We all have an inner voice, and it has tremendous power. If you truly believe you’ve tried everything and nothing will work, that belief will become your reality. You picked up this book because you still hope that native-level fluency is possible. And it is. I have witnessed it firsthand with not just one student, but many. Protect your thoughts and approach the Speaker Habit with a positive mindset. It will serve you well on the slow, steady journey ahead.

“Do I really need to speak native-level English?”

For many, native-level English isn’t a practical goal. Most English language learners eventually stop at a level that is good enough. That might mean enough English to travel, watch movies, or even live in an English-speaking country. My wife Naomi, for example, speaks English as a second language. We communicate mostly in English, sometimes in Japanese. She can tell me when she likes my haircut, when the kids don’t do their homework, and when I need to make more money. We can make plans for the future and share memories from the past. We’ve communicated this way since the day we met 14 years ago. But if Naomi were to take the TOEFL today, she’d score around a 22 in the Speaking section. Most test-takers who need a professional license must earn at least a 26. Think about that. Naomi has spoken with a native speaker every day for well over a decade, and she’d still fail to meet the requirements for a pharmacist license in the States.

At first glance, this may not seem fair, but consider the role of a pharmacist. They fill prescriptions for the sick. Some patients rely on the correct medication to live. The consequences of a misunderstanding at the pharmacy are far greater than those at the MacPherson household. Doctors, nurses, and other medical professionals are required to prove English fluency because the stakes are extremely high.

The Speaker Habit is for motivated English language learners who find their current level unacceptable. That could come from an inner desire to improve or from external pressure, like a licensing board. I wouldn’t recommend the Speaker Habit to my wife. The internal motivation and external pressure are absent. She needs English to communicate with her family, and she can do that quite well. Her English is good enough.

I don’t know your situation, Dear Speaker, but reaching native-level fluency requires strong motivation to endure the process. This isn’t a weekend hobby. It’s a daily practice you must commit to. Whether it is due to external pressure or internal desire, identify what fuels your drive for native-level fluency. It will keep you pushing forward.

I’ve mentioned the Speaker Habit in passing, but have yet to define it, which I’ll do shortly. But before we discuss the Speaker Habit, you must understand the problem with the way you currently practice speaking, and why it leads nowhere.

Chapter 3: The Speaking Problem (The Speaker Habit)

Let’s revisit Mariam’s case. She earned a 21 in TOEFL Speaking and stayed stuck there for nearly a year. After consulting with me, getting some guidance, and practicing with the Speaker Habit, she earned her dream score in less than four months. We all love a happy ending, but analyzing the journey that leads to it can be instructive. How was she practicing? Why did she keep getting a similar score? What did she need to change to finally improve? To answer these questions, we first must understand the hamster. Yes, the hamster. 

A hamster is an adorable little rodent kids often keep as pets so their parents don’t have to get a dog. Most hamsters are kept in cages equipped with a wheel, its main source of exercise. The hamster will run, the wheel will spin, and both will go nowhere. Many English language learners practice speaking like hamsters on a wheel, working hard but never improving. Hamster work, I call it. Mariam had spent most of the year neck-deep in it. 

“Tell me a bit about how you prepare for the TOEFL Speaking,” I asked during our first meeting. 

“I used to practice every day, but not much anymore,” Mariam confessed. 

“That’s okay. I just want to know what you know about the test. There is no need for me to repeat anything you have already learned. You mentioned books and courses, so you know the TOEFL tips and tricks already, right?” 

“Yes, that’s right.” 

“So, after the tips and tricks, how did you prepare for the TOEFL Speaking?” 

“I would do one TOEFL Speaking test a day.” 

“So you’d practice answering TOEFL Speaking questions one through four every day?” 

“Well, almost every day.” 

“Okay. Before each practice, did you have any specific goal in mind? Like improving your pronunciation or trying to use new vocabulary?” 

“No, not really.” 

“Got it. And when you answered the questions, did you record your voice?”  

“Yes, I did.” 

“And what did you do after you recorded your voice?” 

“If there were sample answers, I would look at them.” 

“But what about your recordings? Did you listen back to them?” 

“Oh, um, no.” 

“Why not?” 

“Because I hate the sound of my own voice.” 

“So, I just want to make sure I understand your process for practicing speaking. You would find a TOEFL Speaking test, answer the four questions without a goal in mind – besides doing your best, of course – and you would record your answers. After you recorded your voice, you didn’t listen back to your answers and just moved on to the next question. Is that right?” 

“Pretty much, yeah,” Mariam admitted, her words soaked in guilt. 

No goal. No measurement. No reflection. Mariam was doing loads of practice, believing that the sheer volume of work would translate into improvement – textbook hamster work. 

Let me be clear: I respect Mariam. She speaks and understands English at a far higher level than I’ll ever reach in Japanese. Her study methods have worked up to this point. She’s thriving in a culture she was not born into and raising a family in a second language. There’s much to admire in Mariam. The problem was never her work ethic, but the assumptions she studied under. She had received bad advice from past teachers, including me.

The Limits of Immersion

Before developing the Speaker Habit, I taught English in the classroom. When we practiced speaking, volunteers would read scripted dialogues and answer short questions. Later, students broke off into groups for discussions where they would often switch between English and their native language. There were about fifteen students in class, and everyone had the opportunity to speak. At the lower levels, most were satisfied with their progress. Advanced classes were different. No matter how many speaking exercises we did, improvement hardly followed. Students desperate to escape the intermediate plateau would slink to my desk after class, asking for advice. My response was almost always the same, “You need more exposure to English. Watch movies, read books, even switch your phone to English. Immerse yourself as much as possible and be patient. Over time, your English will improve.” 

Have you ever heard the just immerse yourself in English advice before? How did it make you feel? Probably deeply unsatisfied. I felt the same way every time I said it. I knew plenty of people who had been living in America for years, immersed in English, yet could still hardly string a sentence together. Immersion was missing something, though at the time I didn’t know what. 

The idea that immersion leads to fluency is grounded in research. Since the 1980s, experts in SLA have largely agreed that language is best acquired through input, not drills. In other words, the more immersive the experience, the more likely you are to acquire the language. It is best to find a community - family, work, neighborhood - where you’re forced to use English. Progress is much slower if you crack open a textbook and drill words, which is how languages were taught in the 1970s. Stephen Krashen’s work dismantled the behaviorist approach to language learning, proposing instead that acquisition is mostly subconscious and driven by comprehensible input. Now we know that if you want to learn to speak another language,  comprehensible input is key. 

But immersion becomes far less effective at the intermediate plateau. This is what I have learned after working with thousands of disheartened English learners. To understand why, we must venture beyond SLA research and into the field of Cognitive Science. I know venturing into the field of Cognitive Science sounds super boring, but you picked up this book because you want to know how to finally reach native-level fluency. To uncover the answers, Dear Speaker, we’ll need ideas from outside the traditional classroom. 

The Missing Ingredient: Purposeful Practice

K. Anders Ericsson was a psychologist who worked at Florida State University. In 2016, he published the book Peak: Secrets from the New Science of Expertise with the modest goal of dispelling the idea that some people are born gifted. His hypothesis was that anyone could achieve greatness through the right kind of practice. In his book, Ericsson beautifully breaks the fantasy of divinely inherited greatness. Yo-Yo Ma wasn’t born with an innate talent for music, but has been studying the cello and practicing relentlessly since the age of three. Tiger Woods’ golf education began in infancy, copying his father’s swing as a toddler, later practicing for hours each and every day throughout childhood, and investing thousands of dollars in private coaching to perfect his game. We tend to shrug at incredible achievement and mutter, Some are just born gifted. No. No, they are not. Think of achievement as an iceberg.* We see the tip of the iceberg and stand awed by it, while beneath the water line lies layer upon layer of unseen work, built up over days, weeks, months, years. What separates experts from novices is not natural talent, according to Ericsson, but engagement in consistent, purposeful practice. 

Most practitioners don’t practice purposefully. What I call hamster work, Ericsson refers to as naive practice – something done over and over again in the belief that the practice itself will lead to improvement. Think of a kid on a baseball field who tosses a ball in the air and mindlessly swings over and over and over again, waiting for home runs to come. Or picture an English language learner reading sentences aloud to no one, waiting for native-level fluency to follow. There is no purpose behind their practice, only a belief that time spent automatically leads to improvement. Sadly, most are still running like hamsters on a wheel, under the false belief that energy leads to accomplishment.  

Throughout this book, you’ll learn different ways to improve your speaking practice. But one quick fix to get you out of hamster work and into purposeful practice is to record and review your speaking. Great achievers rely on recordings to improve their performance. Tiger Woods does not just go to the driving range and whack away at a few balls. He has goals and targets for each practice. In the past, he worked with coaches who specialized in golf swing mechanics. They filmed his play from multiple angles, pinpointing places where Tiger could improve on his positioning, his timing, and even his grip. All these details – impossible to catch in the moment – were brought into the harsh light of recorded evidence. No longer hidden and impossible to ignore. Yo-Yo Ma also records and analyzes his practice sessions. He has even consulted with sound engineers to fine-tune the authenticity and intent in his play. Both Tiger Woods and Yo-Yo Ma practice deliberately, setting small, specific goals for mindful practice sessions, while relying on recordings to judge whether or not they are improving.  

Don’t get me wrong, general practice is necessary. Great practitioners devote mind-bending amounts of time to their craft. Tiger Woods takes more than 1000 swings a day. A day! But the volume is paired with purposeful practice. 

Most of you have plenty of exposure to English. The Speaker Habit will be the missing piece of your English practice. 

Purposeful practice is uncomfortable, which is why so many people prefer hamster work. For example, one part of the Speaker Habit is to record your voice and listen back to it. Most sane people would rather listen to a steel knife scratch a ceramic dish than their own recorded voice. Our recorded voice sounds alien, much tinier than expected. I used to think I had a deep, masculine voice. Ha. Not after listening to a recording. The reason our recorded voice sounds different is that when we speak, sound is partly conducted through bone. But a recording captures only air conduction – no bone gets in the way. So unfortunately, you may never like the sound of your own voice because it will always sound different from what you hear every day. I still find mine unsettling, but it’s necessary to confront if I want an accurate idea of how I sound to others.

Purposeful Practice Defined

Purposeful practice is rarely taught and hardly ever happens in classrooms. It’s a highly personal experience that requires one-on-one coaching. Even a small group class of five people doesn’t qualify. Purposeful practice is a personal process, necessary for anyone aiming at greatness. You may not be training for the English Olympics, but you must borrow the Olympian mindset to reach your goal of native-level fluency. It is the only way to break out from the intermediate plateau. 

Olympians don’t download Duolingo and follow prepackaged lessons prescribed to millions. The Duolingo curriculum wasn’t designed for you and your ambitious goals. So, how does a purposeful practice model differ from popular apps and traditional classrooms? There’s no one-size-fits-all definition of purposeful practice, but there are a few key components. 

Purposeful practice includes goals. And you must be specific with the goals you set. I want to fix my pronunciation of the American R sound isn’t specific enough. How would you even know if you achieved it? Do you really think you can ‘fix’ your pronunciation in one practice session? Goals are tricky to get right. We will delve deeper into setting goals and crafting good ones later (Part 2: Chapter 2). Until then, a heuristic to keep in mind is to set a goal you can accomplish – or at least make progress toward – by the end of a practice session. While you can’t fix your R sound in one session, you can check if speech-to-text software recognizes your pronunciation of the tongue twister Russian rock and roll

Purposeful practice is mindful. Thoughts race in and out of consciousness at an uncontrollable pace. As I write these words, I am thinking about what to make for dinner, how to help my son practice soccer, and which emails to send before bed. Capturing the words you are reading now is a constant struggle against the ceaseless insistence of stray thoughts. It will be the same for you when you start the Speaker Habit. Your mind will want to wander. Thinking about a question, speaking about it for a minute, and then analyzing your own voice will be uncomfortable. You will want to think of more pleasant thoughts, but stay engaged. Come to practice sessions with at least one specific goal in mind. Think of that goal while you speak and use it to guide how you analyze your response. To reach native-level fluency, you must break stubborn habits, which requires complete attention. Remember the big picture to keep you motivated. And don’t worry, we will go over strategies for improving mindfulness later (Part 2: Chapter 2). Until then, another quick tip to stay focused is to make it short. 

Purposeful practice is short.  There’s a time and place for practicing English in volume. Binging the first season of Game of Thrones or listening to a popular podcaster are fine ways to saturate your brain with English. After all, the entertainment industry inspires many to learn English in the first place. Immersion only turns problematic when intensive practice is neglected. You must couple extensive exposure with intensive focus. You might watch a movie and follow the plot, but if I paused and replayed just 15 seconds of dialogue, and asked you to transcribe what you heard, it would be challenging. In immersive experiences, we gloss over details and focus on the story. But those very details are what separate intermediate from advanced English language learners. Consistent grammar mistakes or awkward vocabulary signal to listeners that there are gaps in your English, so you must address these details. But your intensive practice sessions do not have to be long, which is why it takes just 15 minutes a day to complete the Speaker Habit. If you decide to push it further, go for it, but I never recommend more than an hour of intensive speaking practice per day. Anything more leads to burnout. 

Purposeful practice pushes your limits. Most of what you do in life will not require purposeful practice. Take cycling, for example. You probably know how to ride a bike. You learned when you were a kid. When you use a bicycle, the goal is simple: to go from one destination to another. If you are in a hurry, you know how to switch gears and pedal faster. If something breaks, you can visit the local repair shop. Fixes are cheap, so you see little reason to learn how to align a wheel or adjust a brake. Most everyday routines operate the same – you have learned enough to function. 

Now imagine you needed the bicycle not just to function, but to survive. You had one too many cocktails the other night and agreed to join a group of extreme cyclists who are planning to traverse nearly 4,000 kilometers of desert across the Australian Outback, from Melbourne to Darwin. This south-to-north Australian crossing includes stretches of over 1,000 kilometers without a single store or water source. Your relationship to the bicycle has radically transformed from pleasant means of transportation to the difference between life and death. Crossing the Outback would require researching the route, setting goals, practicing with those goals in mind, and tracking your progress as you prepare for the grueling days of cycling over 75 kilometers in heat well over 40° Celsius.

Reaching native-level fluency will feel uncomfortable at times. It requires purposeful, deliberate practice on a daily basis. Much of the practice entails confronting weaknesses and pushing past your current level. You have lingered on the intermediate plateau long enough. Now is the time to stop running away from flaws and to turn them into strengths. 

Purposeful practice is recorded. Recording the Speaker Habit is simple: press record and speak for about a minute. Almost every student I’ve taught complains at first. Most language learners eagerly avoid their own voice. Know this: hating the sound of your own voice is dreadfully unoriginal. Sorry if that sounds mean, but you must understand that most English language learners never reach native-level fluency because they never learned to let go of their ego. Your recorded voice contains the critical data you need to reach native-level fluency. If more students were taught to record and analyze their voices in school, this book wouldn’t be necessary. The words you read are based on the power of purposeful practice through analysis of recorded performance. Remember, your goal is simple: to be the best English speaker you can be. To do this, you must borrow from masters in other domains and record your practice. It’s not optional, it’s mandatory. 

Purposeful practice is analyzed. When I meet a student for the first time, the most common tragedy is that they’ve never recorded their voice. When I meet a student for the second time, it’s never listening to their voice. I’ve heard the mantra I can’t stand the sound of my own voice a nauseating number of times. When I work with a student, they must agree to record and self-assess. If they won’t, we can’t work together. There’s no other path to improvement in spoken fluency. You must record and analyze your voice. If you don’t, native-level fluency isn’t in your future. Period. 

Purposeful practice is measured. Speaking comes and goes. We have a conversation, ask and answer a couple of questions, and move on. When thinking back on past conversations, you may remember a mistake or a memorable phrase, but that’s about it. You must find ways to measure your speech. You may hear encouraging words from friends like, “Your English is getting better,” but if you ask them to elaborate, they’d shrug and say, “I don’t know, it just sounds better.” The lack of metrics is one of the most glaring problems with current speaking activities in the language learning classroom. Besides a number on a piece of paper and a few words from a teacher, how do you really know your speaking is getting better? Dieters can step on a scale and measure their weight, businesses can look at the books and calculate profit, but what can the language learner do to measure speaking? And how do you track progress over time to ensure you’re improving? We’ll dig into this in detail later, with metrics like word count, lexical complexity, and more in Part 2, Chapter 4.

Speaking Practice Problems

Think back to Mariam, my TOEFL student who failed the test nine times. When pressed on her speaking habit, she admitted the following: 

“So, I just want to make sure I understand your process for practicing speaking. You would find a TOEFL Speaking test, answer the four questions without a goal in mind – besides doing your best, of course – and you would record your answers. After you recorded your voice, you didn’t listen back to your answers and just moved on to the next question. Is that right?” (p. 16) 

Through the lens of purposeful practice, the cause of Mariam’s failure becomes painfully obvious. She was bound to fail – practicing without goals, without measurement, without tracking. Consider the millions of English language learners like Mariam, stuck on the intermediate plateau, knee-deep in hamster work, who see no path forward. A tragic waste of potential. 

You might be one of them, Dear Speaker. 

Know that the problem isn’t you, but the way you practice. This point is critical: the problem isn’t you, but the way you practice. With purposeful practice, improvement isn’t just possible, it’s inevitable. Anyone can break past their current limits and push forward, a truth echoed by Anders Ericsson in Peak

Whenever you're trying to improve at something, you will run into such obstacles – points at which it seems impossible to progress, or at least where you have no idea what you should do in order to improve. This is natural. What is not natural is a true dead-stop obstacle, one that is impossible to get around, over, or through. In all of my years of research, I have found it is surprisingly rare to get clear evidence in any field that a person has reached some immutable limit on performance. Instead, I’ve found that people more often just give up and stop trying to improve. (p. 21) 

There is no limit to your potential, Dear Speaker. You haven’t hit an impossible wall. There’s no genetic gift bestowed on others and missing in your makeup. This is one of the most inspiring lessons from Ericsson’s Peak, which is why I chose it as the epigraph to this very book. When you hit a wall, it isn’t a signal to stop, but a call to explore, test, and discover ways around it. Investigate your current speaking habits and you’ll uncover the source of your stagnation. 

Popular approaches to practicing speaking often fail to follow the purposeful practice model we aim to emulate through the Speaker Habit. Think about how you currently practice speaking. Does it contain any of these five common problems for intermediate language learners?

Problem #1: Speaking is hard to measure. 

Speaking practice starts at an immensely practical level. You learn to introduce yourself and speak about the past. You learn how to ask questions and change verb tenses. Eventually, you move beyond the classroom and into the real world, ordering at restaurants, giving directions to taxi drivers, and checking into hotels. Progress comes naturally. Chances to use the language abound. Those early successes inspire you to learn more, pushing you toward esoteric vocabulary that’s impractical for everyday conversation. As your speech grows more complex, you sense mistakes – mistakes friends and family don’t have the heart to correct. Teachers may say, ‘Your English is improving,’ but you’re not so sure. At this point, you need clear and meaningful speaking activities with metrics on your grammar, vocabulary, pronunciation, prosody, and intonation. Vague words of encouragement from others will not do. 

Problem #2: Speaking is hard to self-assess. 

Words come and go. In real conversation, you don’t have time to stop and check if you correctly conjugated the verb or used the right article. You’re just trying to have a conversation – to understand and be understood. The message matters most. So how can you capture and assess your speech in that context? 

Even if you’ve recorded your voice before, you’ve probably struggled with self-assessment. After you record and listen back, what then? You’re not a teacher. How do you know if you’re speaking too fast or too slow? If your pronunciation is correct or incorrect? And since your recorded voice sounds different to you than to others, how can you tell whether you have the right stress and intonation? One of the main goals of this book is to provide you with the tools to self-assess. We’ll cover this in great detail in Part 2, Chapter 4. 

Problem #3: It is hard to use what you have learned. 

Imagine studying law and coming across the word judicial. You like the word and decide to try it out at a local diner. The waitress approaches the table and asks, “Are you ready to order?” You smile and reply, “Sorry, I need another minute. I’m trying to be more judicial in my decisions.” A kind waitress would nod and walk away confused; an impolite waitress would ask if you recently had a concussion. You see, advanced vocabulary is often impractical in everyday life. 

Another example. You hire a teacher to help you reach native-level fluency. She says that your subjects and verbs often don’t agree, and you need to work on this issue. But how do you practice? Are you going to stop mid-conversation to think about proper verb agreement? Prioritizing correctness over the message would turn you into a terrible conversation partner. 

What you need is a space to work on your weaknesses and push your fluency further. A space where you can record, analyze, and measure your speech. Here we can borrow an idea from the coding world: the sandbox. Coders never inject fresh code on a live site. It’s too dangerous. New code is unpredictable. There’s no way to know how it will perform within an existing site architecture. You don’t want your website to crash, but you still need to update it. That’s why a safe space for experimentation is required. A coding sandbox is an isolated environment, separate from the website, where coders can work worry-free. Even if it breaks, live users never notice. Only after the code is thoroughly tested will it be added to the live site. 

Think of the Speaker Habit as your English sandbox. This is not a class with test scores. This is not an office with critical colleagues. The Speaker Habit happens in a private space, with you alone, speaking without fear of repercussions, readying yourself for the real world. 

Problem #4: It is hard to see progress. 

Learning a language is simpler in school. The curriculum is set. You enter Beginner English as a first-year high school student and, if you pass, you move on to Intermediate English the next year, followed by Advanced English in your final year. You might not feel like an advanced English speaker, but you’ve met the requirements to move up the ladder. And it feels good. You even get to use some English when you travel abroad or when you watch an American movie. Studying English makes sense – it’s practical and improving – so you continue. 

After high school, practice gets complicated. You download apps, hire tutors, and read short stories in English, but something changes. Without test scores and teacher nods, you feel stuck. Progress floats around, teasing out a new random word or phrase, but your English practice now lacks a narrative of progress. You decide to find a set curriculum, like the one you had in high school, and purchase a program guaranteed to deliver English fluency: 90 Days to Kick Ass English. The results are, inevitably, disappointing. 

What’s missing from the guided curricula in school and online? They neglect to teach you, the language learner, how to measure and assess your own speaking. Every dieter knows how to step on a scale. Every runner knows how to start a stopwatch. How about you? What concrete metrics do you use to know whether or not you are progressing? You have an intuitive understanding of what good English sounds like, but when you practice, you have no tools to measure it. It’s not nearly as neat as tracking pounds or setting time splits. In Part 2, Chapter 4, we’ll talk about how to measure your speaking so progress is pulled out of the dark and shoved into the light of awareness. 

Problem #5: It is hard to find an effective speaking habit. 

Smart language learners who can afford a private tutor will hire one. They know private and direct instruction leads to far better results than a classroom of twenty students fighting for the attention of a single teacher. However, hiring a private instructor is far from a foolproof plan. Most private classes follow the same trajectory: you hire a teacher and agree to meet for an hour every day, focusing on having conversations that provide ample opportunity to speak in a comfortable environment. After six months, you both feel a lack of progress and agree to stop. You try again, thinking the problem was the instructor, but you still feel very much like a hamster, stuck on the same damn wheel.  

Creating a lasting habit that actually improves performance is more nuanced than you’d expect. It’s not as simple as I want to learn English, so I will study every day until it happens. Anyone who has attempted to adopt a healthy but demanding habit, like regular exercise, knows that desire alone is not enough. Long-term commitment is often achieved by individuals who understand how habits form. Believe it or not, habit formation is a growing field of neuroscience. You can even hire a habit nerd* to tweak your lifestyle and build systems that keep you on track. The science of habit-building extends beyond the personal and into the business world, with companies like Duolingo investing heavily in understanding habit formation. Think about it. Duolingo’s entire business is based on keeping users engaged. It’s no accident that one of the best-selling nonfiction books of the last decade is James Clear’s Atomic Habits. Getting users hooked can be the difference between billions and bankruptcy.   

 In Part 3, Chapter 3, after we have gone over the Speaker Habit, we’ll discuss how habits form, and what you can do to build a speaking habit that lasts until you reach native-level fluency. But first, we still haven’t defined the Speaker Habit. Let’s finally learn what this thing is that I keep ranting about. Let’s learn the Speaker Habit. 

Chapter 4: The Speaker Habit Defined (The Speaker Habit)

There are thousands of English schools, sites, apps, and teachers making big promises. You’ve heard the reach-native-level-fluency-by-following-my-97-step-plan spiel before, I’m sure. The Speaker Habit may feel like another hollow promise screaming into the abyss of language learning advice. But, if you’ve read this far, you sense something different about the Speaker Habit. One enormous difference is that this routine is designed for a very particular type of language learner. You’re not some American trying to learn Italian. Nor are you a lazy beginner, wishing to attend Harvard without ever cracking open a book. This is for experienced English language learners seeking mastery. Most advice is not designed for you. 

Another reason why you haven’t heard of the Speaker Habit is that I’ve worked almost entirely with TOEFL test-takers. I built the Speaker Habit through a process of trial and error over the past decade while working with a niche of English language learners facing a very particular problem. For example, if you were born abroad but wished to become a licensed pharmacist in the States, you had to obtain the Foreign Pharmacy Graduate Examination Committee (FPGEC) Certification. One requirement was a 26 in the TOEFL Speaking section, and many were stuck between 20-24. This differs from most other language learning environments because the goal was specific. Their goals were not only Not only were not only specific, but highly relevant. Going from pharmacy technician to licensed pharmacist includes a significant pay bump that would push their annual income north of six figures. 

Teaching pharmacists how to improve their TOEFL scores also forced me to be better. I had skin in the game. Each student represented an opportunity to make or break my reputation. I was a solo teacher with a private business who relied on word-of-mouth marketing to make a living. No one would hire me if I couldn’t find a way to improve their TOEFL Speaking scores. Compare this to a school classroom where tenure and a teacher’s union protect educators. Relying on the achievements of the students to survive pushed me to experiment, test, tweak, and reiterate over and over again, crafting a unique approach to improving spoken fluency. 

The second reason you haven’t heard of this approach is that it leverages recent technology. Traditionally, measuring your speaking meant sitting down with a teacher. You’d answer questions while your teacher consulted a grading rubric with general criteria like Pronunciation, Fluency, Vocabulary, and Grammar. After the interview, the teacher informed you of the parts you did well, a few words you mispronounced, and some vague ideas on how to improve. You earned a score without really understanding why or how to do better next time. 

Recent technological advances – along with more robust knowledge of native-level fluency features – provide learners like you with the tools required to measure and assess your own speaking. Voice recorders have been around for decades, but now they’re paired with speech-to-text technology. You speak, and magic software transcribes what you say. This everyday technology can be leveraged as a pronunciation tracker. If a word is transcribed incorrectly, for example, it implies that you have to tweak your pronunciation or intonation. You no longer have to rely on the ears of others for feedback. More advanced tools can measure syllable stress and intonation patterns. Sites like ELSA Speech Analyzer and My Speaking Score have narrowed the gap between language teachers and language learners. We’ll discuss using technology throughout Parts Two and Three. 

That leaves just one obvious question yet to be answered.... 

What Is the Speaker Habit?

A heartbreaking number of English language learners are stuck on the same intermediate plateau and see no path forward. You now know why. Traditional solutions to intermediate English-level problems rarely lead to native-level fluency. Not books. Not classes. Not tutors. None of them empower you to learn how to practice purposefully. And if you don’t learn how to practice well, you are doomed to work like a hamster, running hard and heading nowhere. 

You don’t want to be a hamster. 

The Speaker Habit has been designed to get you off the hamster wheel and onto the path to native-level fluency. So how can a single 15-minute habit help you reach fluency? Understand, Dear Speaker, that growth won’t come only from the habit itself. It will seep into your thoughts every time you speak, listen, or practice English. You’ll begin to recognize mistakes in your voice and in others. Different accents will no longer mystify you because the Speaker Habit trains you to focus not just on words and their meanings, but in the way the words are expressed. Also, understanding the tenets of purposeful practice will reshape how you approach practice moving forward. Hamster work in crowded classes or dry textbooks will feel like a waste of time. 

Get excited. The Speaker Habit is going to transform your English. All you have to do is follow these five simple steps. 

Step 1 → Set your goal. Avoid wandering around when you practice, praying to pick up a new word or phrase. Your time is precious, don’t waste it. Set a specific, measurable goal before you practice each day. Whether or not you reach that goal is unimportant. What matters is that you devote mindful, purposeful attention to how you speak. 

Step 2 → Record your response.  Every day, you will speak for at least 30 seconds to a single question. Even if you aren’t interested in the question, try to answer it anyway. The point of the exercise is to get more comfortable speaking for an extended period of time. Most language learners provide clipped answers to questions because they fear making a mistake or sounding silly. Don’t turn conversations into police interrogations with answers like Yes or No or I don’t know. Those conversation killers stunt fluency growth. You must speak and embrace the fact that you’ll make mistakes. Mistakes aren’t just natural, but a necessary prerequisite to growth. Any great musician, athlete, or entrepreneur will confess that a willingness to experiment and make mistakes fueled their eventual success. 

Step 3 → Transcribe your response. Performances come and go. Memory provides only a vague outline of how well you did. Right now, if someone asked how you spoke, you’d probably say It was okay or It was terrible. Taking the time to listen and transcribe forces you to be specific. In fact, you’ll hear more mistakes than you imagined. There will be vocal fillers you hadn't noticed, mispronounced words, and improper intonation patterns. All of these factors impact your intelligibility. At first, it will be hard, no doubt, especially since you’ll need to replay the same sentence multiple times to write it all down. But take heart, after just a few days of transcribing, you’ll notice significant – significant – improvement in your speech.

Step 4 → Measure your response. Speaking is notoriously annoying to measure. Consider your own experience. You may have felt like your pronunciation needed work, or that you had some spoken grammar mistakes, but finding concrete metrics to assess and learn from was lacking. 

This changes with the Speaker Habit. 

You may wonder, How can you measure something like spoken grammar? And even if you could measure spoken grammar, how would you practice spoken grammar? And even if you could practice spoken grammar, how would you know you’re getting better?

At all costs, you want to avoid feeling like a hamster on a wheel, so you must measure your speaking in ways that lead to results you can feel and calculate. In Part 2, Chapter 5, we’ll cover some key grading dimensions to focus on while you practice. In Part 2, Chapter 6, we’ll take a closer look at ELSA Speech Analyzer and how tools like it provide the actionable data needed to track your progress.

Step 5 → Repeat your response. Your speech will never be perfect. There will always be pieces you wish were better. After speaking, transcribing, and measuring your recording, it’s time to take action and apply what you’ve learned. In the last step of the Speaker Habit, you repeat the response, focusing on one or two areas you believe could be better. Repeating helps solidify the day’s lessons and provides ideas for what to work on tomorrow. 

That is the Speaker Habit in a nutshell. This process is much different than traditional speaking practice because it follows a purposeful practice model. It is personal, requiring mindfulness and a desire to improve. Only a motivated language learner – like you, Dear Speaker – would endure setting goals, speaking, transcribing, measuring, and repeating your English day after day. That willingness to engage in purposeful practice is what separates you from the average English language learner stuck on the intermediate plateau. 

If you’re ready to start, skip to Appendix 3 and start answering questions. That may not be a bad idea, actually. You learn more through personal actions than printed words. But like anything new, you may still have more questions. That’s natural, which is why in Part Two we’ll do a deep dive on each step of the Speaker Habit: what each step is, why it matters, how to do it well, and common mistakes to avoid. If you have the patience, I recommend you keep reading.